Monday, November 10, 2014

I know we're cool

So I was accompanying my partner to do his grocery then suddenly, I saw my ex. I didn't say "hi" to him since he was busy talking to his friend (not because my partner was next to me that time).

Come to think of it, this love sick thing could be very awkward and puzzle sometimes. You called your ex "darling", "honey" "baby"- you could call him the sweetest name on this very earth but eventually when you broke up, you just politely address him with his first name. Really, your ex or even your date used to be the closest human being to you. You promised him forever love and the endless exchange of "I love you", you even could die for him. But eventually, fate ended the relationship, you moved on with your life. The closest human being to you is just an acquaintance now. I believe when you stumble upon your ex in the mall, you would just politely say hi and that's it.

So do i miss my ex(s) or my dates?

Not really but sometimes i just would reminisce the times we spent together. It is rather funny to reminiscence those teenage years when i was in relationship during my high school. Technology wasn't so great back then, so communication was just via SMS and MSN messenger or even dropping
 love messages in Friendster. When i missed him, i would just miss call him . I wasn't rich that time (I'm not rich even now), there were limited things we could afford to do like watching movie or just having a very simple dinner.Doing those simple things could make me so happy though in a frugal relationship.

Actually, not much difference between what  I did with my ex and the things i do with my partner  Still same old things, watching movies and having simple dinner - gosh, i haven't change for all these years for romance, I must be a very boring person to date with. But aren't these simple things that make the relationship so pure and true. Need not to be extravagant and shower the relationships with materials, after all, he will leave you eventually.Lol, just joking. The best things in life are free alright?

Before i end my note, this song goes out to my exs and my ex dates, i know we're cool (except for some).

P/S: How could you not love Gwen Stefani? She's so beautiful and classy!


  1. i have never had a partner so i don't know much, but i'm just curious, if you are in a relationship, why and how do you often reminisce your old flames? do you not feel a bit guilty because when you reminisce your exes, unconsciously you are comparing them to your current beau.

  2. reminiscing those moments only, doesnt mean comparison :)