Thursday, September 13, 2012

What Guideline? Being gay is not a choice, i chose to be honest

Malaysia reached another level of absurdity again. 

Apparently, Yayasan Guru Malaysia Bhd and Putrajaya Consultative Council of Parents and Teachers Associations with endorsement of Ministry of Education has come up a guideline to identify gay and lesbian among school children so the parents can take appropriate measures on them.
Below is the guideline:
For gays:
  • Muscular body and a fondness for showing off the body by wearing clothing, such as by wearing V-necks and sleeveless tops
  • A preference for tight and bright coloured clothes
  • An inclination to be attracted to men
  • A tendency to carry big handbags, similar to the kinds used by women
For lesbians:
  • Showing attraction to women
  • Distancing themselves from women other than their girlfriends
  • A preference for hanging out, sleeping and dining with women
  • Absence of feelings for men
Somehow, I should thank them for coming up this list because they have vindicated me from being gay coz I don’t have those mentioned traits. I have tiny body, I don’t show off my body, I only have two or three V-necks and I don’t even have a sleeveless top. I don’t own any big handbags and most of my clothes are black.

Mom,I’m straight finally!!

Sarcastic aside, not only they have pissed off the gay and lesbian community in Malaysia but they have seriously put the straight men and straight women in negative spotlight. Look, if a straight guy who has tight V-necks shirt in bright colour, so he must be gay? An overprotected girl who is forbidden to hang out with guys by her parents, left with no choice hanging out with girls, so the girl must be lesbian?

Straight men follow the trend and fashion of the gay men, so do we need to punish the straight men as well since they adopt gay fashion?

Muscular body and a fondness for showing off body, let me see which celebrities have this trait: David Beckham, Christiano Ronaldo, Rain, Matthew Mcconaughey, all the members of 2pm – so are they gay?
Okay, so they are telling the straight guys not to have muscular body and relinquish their healthy habit at gym and be an fat ass? A girl mixes with guy friends have high chances to lead to rape, hanging out with girl friends will lead to homosexuality. That’s very sad for girls coz they are loner in the world, what kind of sexuality they can hang out with? Transsexual? 

Really, man and woman hang out too close will be summoned to court for close proximity, then, what creature should we hang out with? God please, create a third sex for us!!

Our government has always been championing the propaganda of 1Malaysia in which everyone  is equal. Shouldn’t gay and lesbian be equal under the 1Malaysia umbrella? Who am I kidding; Malaysia even doesn’t recognize the basic human rights for the gay and lesbian. Statutory rape is okay in Malaysia but never ever okay for gay and lesbian lifestyle here.

 I’m grown up adult. Even if my mom notices that I share the mentioned traits , I believe she will goes like this “So you’re gay huh? Please be good. Don’t go out and play around”. I know most of the parents will rather be conservative to have a gay child, but being a parent boils down to one point; they just want us to be happy in our lives. I’m gay and I’m happy about it because being gay is not my choice and it’s my nature and I’m proud to be honest of being gay at least I’m not pretend to be straight.

What I concern the most are those school children. What if they are gay or lesbian and have those mentioned traits, definitely it will lead to bullying and teasing among their schoolmates. I can’t guarantee the school teachers will be objective enough to protect them, sidelining more like it. Repercussion of this: depression, could not focus to their studies and refrain from mixing with people, greater repercussion: suicides or distance themselves from society or have low self esteem when they grow up.

I wonder what kind of remedies to straighten up these gays and lesbians. Put them in detention camp or rehab? Give them religion lecture? I don’t know why people like to drag God whenever there is a homosexuality issue. Bitch please, being gay is not a choice. God created me like this and I’m forever be grateful for Him. So you are questioning God’s almightiness?  Blaming God for creating a child who has same sexual preference?

Before I end, kudos for those retards who came up with this guideline. They are a bunch of shallow and lazy asses who blindly set up this guideline without thorough studies. I bet most of their working time is spent on Facebook.

Long live alternative lifestyle!


  1. I never offended to those gay people...Support you...


  2. I personally think they are a bunch of morons who are probably intimidated by the fact that there are people out there who are bold enough to be different and comfortable about their sexuality. In full support of all my gay friends. <3

  3. thanks Jeslyn.
    I think they should understand us better before making judgment. oh sorry, morons doesnt have brains